A Somber Farewell

Image of the old De Lesseps Park before it was destroyed to build the National Assembly building. Image thanks to our friends at www.czbrats.com

Now nestled among the other passengers traveling on the Chiva that night, through the dimly lit night, my eyes focused through the window at the now quiet Cinco de Mayo Town Square which was usually crowded and busy. I turned to see the International Hotel, the old Lesseps Park that saw me grow up, the restaurants at the corner and all the marquees of the night clubs for the first time.

For me those cabarets that served tourists were places I would never enter even when I became of age. But the large park and the area of the shoe shine boys were the most familiar to me because those boys knew me; we had grown up together on San Miguel Hill and the streets of Calidonia and Marañon.

Suddenly the night air caught me feeling deserted on a Panama night that became so important to me in that month of March of 1953. As the bus wound through the streets I started to miss those kids at the shoe shine stands, the same kids who made me feel as if we had been family, the kids who always welcomed me home from school daily and would hail me with a “Shout,” making me feel how important it was for them to see me wearing the National Institute band uniform and parading behind its colors in the school band. This became my special moment to say goodbye to this Panama City, the city that I had known and had become familiar like Lesseps Park which the shoe shine boys had named “The Kremlin,” a spot on the map like the brave Russia of our days.

A mixture of emotions invaded me suddenly and I seemed to hear voices as if I were in a dream hearing those guys saying the usual, “Hey pelao, wha happning? Let me shine your spikes man! ” I recalled that it had been there that I had also graduated from going to Mr Grant’s barber shop on “M” Street to get one of them to give me a good haircut on occasions, when I felt like staying sharp.

In the gloom of that hour, however, I started feeling the agony of losing the love of my life, my grandmother. I thought that she had made her choice and I also made my choice that I would not be able to go back to my class at the National Institute. At any rate, it was a far fetched hope now, to finish my secondary education and to return to a Panama that I hoped not to see for a long time. Everything that had occurred began to look more like a nightmare that would, hopefully, disappear when I awoke from this horrible dream of being free from my aunts.

But, back to reality. I settled down to travel the nightmare to the distant Colon in the dark of the night. I felt like looking around the darkened vehicle but I could not see any of the passengers, as the engine rumbled and swifly moved as if someone had stolen something very valuable and was making their getaway.

I couldn’t sleep and my thoughts haunted me about losing everything that I had worked so hard for in the dental lab, and all I had achieved in Spanish School, and I thought about missing my dear grandmother and my aunt Bernice. Everything seemed to have gone down the drain and would be history for me after this night. The ride became long and tedious, and I disappeared into the night along with the rest of the passengers but with the good parts of my fortune shattered, as if I had never had a life or a God, as though at that time in my life I had nothing to show for what I had been carrying, since the day I departed from my mother’s womb.

Sitting in that darkened bus and feeling desolate had made me suddenly dwell on strange things, things I knew and had never heard as an earthling. One of many feelings overcame me that night that made me feel that I indeed had a mission to be or do something important in this life. It was something that I had to do or help with for someone in this life, something to give life and not death. I concluded that I would serve to replace a living soul, be someone who had the mission of trying out life in that “Christic” mode.

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One response to “A Somber Farewell

  1. This is a letter from a friend:
    As a friend of the owner of this website, I will just give you the simple truth. The first truth is that I am from America, so my viewpoint is comming from that of a former American. The truth is that Panama is where itb4s at. I moved here recently and let me tell you the most difficult thing to do now is talk to my friends and family back home in the U.S. They say things like, ”be careful in that third world country” or “it’s dangerous and there is political corruption.” The truth is America is far more dangerous than here. Political corruption? Hello genius, you’re in America, and if I have to be the thing that tells you how much political corruption you suffer from right now, you’re a product of it and simply canb’t see what’s right in front of your face very clearly. Panama has no where near the same amount of corruption, restrictions, taxation, bank frauds, foreclosures,low morality, or problems that exist currently in the states.
    Panama has the Panama Canal where all the big ships of the world pay around $300k to pass through it. If you are a big ship and you want to go from the Atlantic to the Pacific or vice verse, you have to go through the Panama Canal and you can depend on that. At any given moment, whether it’s 3 a.m. or 3 p.m., there will be a string of ships lined up waiting to go through. This is 100% national income. This place has no IRS and basically no tax on income and it isn’t going to need one for a long, long time.
    I could talk about tourism and the city and many more things for hours but for here I just give one example that nations of the world cannot claim a comparison for in long term economical support. Taxi rides are a buck, the bus is a quarter, you really don’t need a car, and the paradise is the best paradise I have ever seen in my life (and I have been to a few places). Full, delicious meals prepared by others cost $2.80 and you dont need to exchange any currency. A gardener, house cleaner or cement layer will cost you $8.00 a day. Markets are wide open, and foreigners are from every end of the world. In Bocas del Toro and Bouquete, everyone speaks English. The view anywhere here should sell for a couple hundred thousand in an art show and this is my every day life now. I have alot to be thankfull for being here.
    Don’t try to get me started on the negatives in the U.S., because they don’t exist here at all and not thinking about them is my personal greatest pleasure. I could go on and on and on. Come check it out and see for yourself. The owners of this site will put you up if you’re looking to buy one of their many properties and are probably some of the coolest people you will ever meet in your life. Need I dive into the possibilities of real estate here? Have what you think is a nice day in the U.S. Am I ever glad I moved on from that memory. As they say here, “Ciao.”

    P.S. I am eating a fresh pineapple a friend gave me in the street a few minutes ago, and it is ridiculously good.